The Hardest Words For Us to Hear !!!


Prepared By: Safehaven For Widowed
Music: The Rose
By: West Life

A cardinal is a representative of a loved one.

A Cardinal


Administer for our new Blog online also moderator some of her many duties are recruiting moderators and scheduling, supporting our volunteer moderators once they've assumed their new roles. I am also widowed lost my husband Aug 18, 2011.

Going on without you

Going on without you

Safehaven for Widowed bringing together

Safehavenforwidowed bringing together people who have also lost a loved one giving them the opportunity to share their grief with others.

I‘m so sick of pretending

I'm sick of pretending
I‘m so sick of pretending that I’m okay when I’m breaking down inside

IF HEAVEN HAD A PHONE I wish that you could call me, And tell me how you are.


I wish that you could call me,
And tell me how you are.
I’m sure it’d be expensive,
Cause Heaven is very far.
But how I’d love to hear you,
If only one more time.
If only for a second,
I’d pay my only dime.
To hear your voice, your words, your laugh,
I’d give everything I own.
Oh, how happy I would be,
If Heaven had a phone!

The hardest words for us to hear are

The hardest words for us to hear are

“We wish we had known about you earlier.”
If you, and family members or friends are grieving the death of a loved one no matter how long ago who need support from those members that understand and do get it.
If you have family members or friends that have lost a loved in death no matter how long ago who need support from those that understand and do get it.
Invite them to come to our website Http://

For all who’ve lost a partner: women, men, and straight, LGBT, all ages, kids of all ages, no kids, unmarried, all religions or no religion, all races, non-discriminating or judgmental.
Join others also on the same journey and path, who totally understand. You can find members to chat with in or chatroom, we also have forums to participate in, and posts to read or write plus offer other resources.
Our website and chat rooms are safe, secure, and confidential, moderated, and monitored.
7 days a week, 24 hours and 365 days a year.
You don’t have to be alone we do understand and we do get it, and if you need to let it out \ vent this is the place in safe, secure, confidential environment where there is no judging, discrimination in a friendly family environment.


Tracy joined on January 10th, 2010, going through her own grief losing her husband James on June 15th, 2007. In 2009 Tracy became a volunteer room moderator supporting others on this long road so they are not alone, in 2011 she joined the administration here as our Assistant Director under Bill and continued to moderate the chat rooms and give support to members and others. On October 21st, 2013 she was faced with the loss her sister Karen and only sibling this devastated Tracy. Tracy today is now raising her niece Kathryn, who is 13 years old. On January 21, 2016 she was promoted to Director of Tracy is the backbone of Safehaven for widowed; and our gatekeeper, she knows all that goes on here at Safehaven for widowed.

Grieving for our loved one’s