Hi, my name is Judy, I am a widow, I lost my husband John to cancer in 2005. I am sorry for all of our losses here my heart goes out to all of you it does and my prayers every day to give you the strength to carry forward each day. I volunteer daily with a local hospice organization here in New Jersey providing palliative care and hospice care since 2008. I am also a moderator here at Safehavenforwidowed since 2010 supporting and giving hope and encouragement to all that have lost a loved ones related to death no matter how or when with love and understanding. This is a something that no one wishes upon anyone or ever will understand until they actually wear the shoes and walk the path that they those that have lost a loved one related to death no matter how or when.